April 8, 2018

344: Have Conversations That Matter, with Celeste Headlee

Celeste Headlee: We Need to Talk Celeste Headlee is an award-winning journalist who has appeared on NPR, PBS World, PRI, CNN, BBC and other international networks. She hosts a daily talk show called “On Second Thought” for Georgia Public Broadcasting in Atlanta. She’s the author of the book We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter*. Key Points Dysfunctional conversations (especially about politics) are nothing new. What is new is how virtually every decision we make has been politicized. When in a conversation, let go of the burden of trying to convince someone of something. Listen to someone to hear their perspective rather than only waiting to hear what they say just so you can refute it. When you’re trying to take in information, you cannot also be holding an agenda. If you don’t know an answer, don’t try to hide it. Just say, “I don’t know, but I’ll find out.” People have less empathy towards others than they used to. It’s possible to find something in common with almost anyone if you ask a few questions. Resources Mentioned We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter by Celeste Headlee* 10 Ways to Have a Better Conversation (Celeste’s TED talk) Don’t Find a Job, Find a Mission TEDxAugusta Help Make America Talk Again TEDxSeattle Book Notes Download my highlighted notes from We Need to Talk in PDF format (free membership required). Related Episodes CFL198: How to Know What to Ask CFL254: Use Power for Good and Not Evil CFL271: How to Increase Your Conversational Intelligence Activate Your Free Coaching for Leaders Membership Get immediate access to my free, 10-day audio course, 10 Ways to Empower the People You Lead. Give me 10 minutes a day for 10 days to get the most immediate, practical actions to become a better leader. Join at CoachingforLeaders.com. Next Episode Cameron Herold joins me next week to teach us the lessons from his book Vivid Vision: A Remarkable Tool For Aligning Your Business Around a Shared Vision of the Future.

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